Okay the first post on a new blog. So exciting!
I decided to talk about today woman in our society. There is some woman out there that all they think they have to offer is their looks. There are professions out there that are based on just your looks. Isn’t that a little sad. Like Britney Spears people listen to her music but we all know that her whole career is based on how good her body looks. Case in point when she had her kids and she gained some weight no one really listened to her anymore and the first time she tried to make a come back it didn’t go well. She wasn’t even overweight but she looked kind of big in the bra and panties that she was wearing. She finally did make a comeback by basically making a dancer version of the music she made in the 90s. The only difference in her music is the sex in her music has increased. Shouldn’t we be teaching our children that character and your mind are more important then your looks?
I have been overweight most of my life so I haven’t had to opportunity to have tons of boyfriends like some of my roommates and friends have, but the most important lesson I have learned from this is that I am more than just my looks. I have a personality and I have opinions. I don’t spend all my time “keeping myself hot”
Even if I was size 0 I would want to be valued more for my mind and personality then how good I look in a mini skirt and a bra.
I know what some of you might be thinking out there. That’s just a opinion of a fat girl, and I have no “hotness to maintain” but you know what I say to that, all those girls won’t be hot forever. Britney spears will one day become older and she won’t look good in a bra and mini skirt anymore, than what? No matter how much you work out you won’t have your youthful body and face forever than you won’t have anything to fall back on.
I would rather be able to sustain an intelligible conversation then have a ton of guy check me out wherever I go. Because most woman want a fulfilling relationship and relationships just based on physical attraction usually end horribly and the woman usually feels worse then before. Just something to
Think about it
Ponder it
Get back to me.
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